- May 1, 1992 - December 27, 2015
- Wayland, Michigan
of Benjamin's Passing
Hillside Learning and Behavioral Center
212 Grove St.
Allegan, MI 49010
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“Dear Cheryl and Randy,
I am just heart broken to hear of Ben's passing. My prayers go out to you and your family as you deal with this loss. I...Read More »
1 of 42 | Posted by: Ruth Evilsizor - Wayland, MI
“i remember the night that ben and rachel were born. ben came into the world on his own terms and by the look of sheer joy on his handsome face, it...Read More »
2 of 42 | Posted by: deb fitzpatrick - hudsonville, MI
“Dear Cheryl, Randy and Family,
I loved singing with Ben, sitting on the floor of the lobby playing spoon wars and just laughing with him when...Read More »
3 of 42 | Posted by: Suzette Sparks - Wayland, MI
“Dear Randy, Cheryl and family...You know Heaven is a happy place today with Benji there. His memory will get you through. Our prayers are with you...Read More »
4 of 42 | Posted by: A friend
“Randy and Cheryl I remember you leaving Ben with us in PPI class, he was adorable. I remember him learning to walk, always pretty smiley. He will be...Read More »
5 of 42 | Posted by: Jo Ann Sherman - Hamilton, MI
“I was Bens bus driver a couple of years ago. He never said much on the noisy bus. One morning as he was boarding he pointed at my brightly colored...Read More »
6 of 42 | Posted by: Sue Bell - Wayland, MI - friend
“Ben always had a wonderful smile that brightened up a room. I will miss him.
7 of 42 | Posted by: Melissa Swanson (Tanner) - MI
“Dear Randy and Cheryl and all the amazing family related to Benji.I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You all have been an inspiration to all, so...Read More »
8 of 42 | Posted by: Dean VanderWoude - Pearland, TX
“The first time I remember meeting Ben was at GLCC. We often sat behind your family. He used to carry a yellow plastic shovel.When we had the...Read More »
9 of 42 | Posted by: Pam DeHaan - Shelbyville, MI
“So sad to hear of Ben's passing. He is a bright star in all the lives he touched. Our thoughts go out to his family. His smile will never be...Read More »
10 of 42 | Posted by: A friend
“So sorry for your loss. I remember babysitting for him when you lived in Hopkins. Sorry I lost touch.
11 of 42 | Posted by: Kathy Kraft - Allegan, MI
“Benji always brings joy and laughter and fun to any occasion. So deeply saddened for the tremendous loss we are experiencing. I cannot begin to...Read More »
12 of 42 | Posted by: Denice and Tim Pekel and Family - MI
“Smith Family, my heart breaks for you! My life will forever be blessed for knowing Ben, hearing his laugh and watching his eyes light up with...Read More »
13 of 42 | Posted by: Robin Melvin-Lavender - Allegan, MI
“May God bless you at this difficult time. Prayers for you all.
14 of 42 | Posted by: Joyce Ritchie - Kentwood, MI
“Randy & Cheryl, Nate, Rachel & Adam, Alex and Henryk,It is not an easy path when our love one departs their earthly home to be with our Father in...Read More »
15 of 42 | Posted by: John and Melani Schipper - MI
“I'm so sorry for loss,I met u when my twins were born and Kayla was down syndrome u helped me through a very scary time for me.kayla loved Ben she's...Read More »
16 of 42 | Posted by: Diane Ritsema - wayland, MI
“Dear Randy, Cheryl and FamilyWishing you comfort, strength and peace during this very sad time. I am sure that Ben is now flying high with the...Read More »
17 of 42 | Posted by: Linda Hastidt - Wayland, MI
“Oh Cheryl,Randy and Ben's siblings,I still am in shock over Ben leaving for Heaven so soon.I am saying prayers for all of your family and friends. I...Read More »
18 of 42 | Posted by: Connie Pifer - Wayland, MI
“My thoughts are with your family during this hard time. I pray that God puts a healing hand on your hearts, and you find comfort in Him while you...Read More »
19 of 42 | Posted by: Faith Padron - Jacksonville, NC
“May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.Sending prayers
20 of 42 | Posted by: Cathy kelly - wayland, MI
“The world has become a colder place without Ben.
21 of 42 | Posted by: Erika Smith - Wayland, MI
“Randy, Cheryl and kids....We are so saddened by Bens passing. He always brought a smile to us every time we saw him and when we first met 15 years...Read More »
22 of 42 | Posted by: Tom and Joan Wallace - Wayland, MI
“So sad to hear of Ben's passing. Praying for peace, comfort and love for each one of you during this time. May the joy in your memories fill your...Read More »
23 of 42 | Posted by: Mike and Karen McCullough
“Cheryl & Randy, I'm so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. It's quite a shock. I still remember the joy he got just getting a sucker in the drive-thru! I...Read More »
24 of 42 | Posted by: Janet VanderLaan - Wayland, MI
“I am heartbroken. We have watched him grow into an awesome young man over our years at Yes I Can t-ball.May God bless his family and friends.
Barb...Read More »
25 of 42 | Posted by: Barb Wright - Dorr, MI - Friend
“I have many special memories of Benny. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to all your family.
26 of 42 | Posted by: Kelly Geary - Kalamazoo, MI
“So sorry for your loss. Praying for peace and comfort for your family.
27 of 42 | Posted by: Tara - Dorr, MI - Friend
“Randy, Cheryl and family,
So sorry to hear about the loss of Benji. Praying that you find peace and comfort during this time.
Bryan and Kathy Drake
28 of 42 | Posted by: Bryan and Kathy Drake - Saratoga, WY
“I still have a picture of Ben pulling his lips apart and sticking his tongue out that he gave me. Every time I hear the Hope House doorbell I want...Read More »
29 of 42 | Posted by: Pastor Rick Christy - Wayland, MI
“Cheryl and Randy,
I am so sorry. Ben will always have a special place in my heart.
You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.
30 of 42 | Posted by: Marsha Irelan - Kalamazoo, MI
“I am so very sorry for your family loss. I will never forget his smile and laugh. Hugs to all my heart breaks for you all.
31 of 42 | Posted by: Deborah Soule
“Randy Cheryl Nate Rachael Alex and H I am so sorry for your loss. I know you are hurting just as much as I am. I sure am going to miss him. He...Read More »
32 of 42 | Posted by: Linda Holcomb - Wayland, MI
“Dear Randy, Cheryl and Family,We want to express our sympathy with the passing of Ben. May you feel the arms of God wrapped around you, holding you...Read More »
33 of 42 | Posted by: Rex and Marilyn Pomranka - MI
“Prayers go out to him and his family. He was such a fun loving person. Always made me laugh when we were in school. You will be missed Benji.
34 of 42 | Posted by: Amanda - Detroit, MI - Friend
“Benny loved to make people laugh and he did an awesome job. He will be so missed by so many people. Y'all are in my thoughts and prayers please let...Read More »
35 of 42 | Posted by: Shelly Boerman - Allegan - Friend
“I was Benny bus drive for sometime and enjoyed him every day My prayers are with you and your family
36 of 42 | Posted by: Elaine corner - Wayland - Friend
“Sending prayers for comfort and peace as you go through this sad time. Everyone at Hillside and the community are in my prayers also. Ben was always...Read More »
37 of 42 | Posted by: Jessie Cronkhite - Allegan, MI
“Randy, Cheryl and family - Our prayers are with you and your family as you navigate this difficult time. Ben brought sunshine everywhere he went and...Read More »
38 of 42 | Posted by: A friend
“Dear Cheryl and Randy, my heart aches for you. Thinking of you and your family and praying for peace for your hearts.
39 of 42 | Posted by: Rhonda Hulbert
“Dearest Cheryl, Randy, and family ~ We were so saddened to hear of BJ's passing. Please know that we hold you all close and are lifting you up in...Read More »
40 of 42 | Posted by: Rog & Laurie Shoemaker - MI
“It is such a huge responsibility to care for one of Gods Angels here on earth. You and Randy and your family sure gave him a blessed life. My heart...Read More »
41 of 42 | Posted by: Deb straub - Shelbyville, MI
“So sorry for your loss. Praying for and thinking about you all.
42 of 42 | Posted by: Jodi Church - Belding, MI
Benjamin John Smith, age 23 of Wayland, went to be with his Lord December 27, 2015 at home with his family. Benji will be lovingly remembered by his parents Randy and Cheryl Smith; his twin sister Rachael (Adam) Austin; his brothers Nate, Alex, and Henryk Smith; his grandparents: Bill and Bea Berends, Ken and Carol Smith; and other loving family. Benji attended Hillside Learning and Behavior Center in Allegan, was a member of Moline CRC, and loved his 18 years playing Yes I Can T-Ball. Friends and family know Benji as a spoon collector, train tracks lover, plastic container lid thief, ketchup enthusiast, and music and Delilah Show listener. Friends may visit with Benji's family on Friday, January 1, 2016 from 1:00-3:00 PM at Corinth Reformed Church in the Chapel, where his Celebration of Life Service will be held at 3:00 PM with Pastor Jim DeZeeuw officiating. A gathering time to celebrate Benji with chocolate pudding cups and Diet Coke will follow the service. In lieu of flowers please make donations in memory of Benji to the family for expenses or to the Hillside Learning and Behavior Center of Allegan. Please share memories and photos of Benji with his family at www.kubiakcook.com.